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A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About
What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?
If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn’t you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.
In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world’s most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can’t control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.
Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that’s made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. Within a few pages, you’ll realize how much energy and time you’ve been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.
Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.
Learn how to:
Stop wasting energy on things you can’t control Stop comparing yourself to other peopleBreak free from fear and self-doubtRelease the grip of people’s expectationsBuild the best friendships of your lifeCreate the love you deservePursue what truly matters to you with confidenceBuild resilience against everyday stressors and distractionsDefine your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment. . . and so much more.
The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential.
Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words.
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AC –
5 Stars â A Life-Changing Perspective
Let Them Theory is one of those rare books that gently but powerfully shifts your entire mindset. It offers a beautifully simple yet profound approach to letting go of control, embracing inner peace, and allowing people to be exactly who they areâwithout taking it personally. The concept of âlet themâ sounds so easy, but the way this book unpacks it with wisdom, compassion, and real-life examples makes it incredibly impactful.Reading this felt like having a heart-to-heart with a trusted friend who sees the world through a lens of grace and self-respect. It reminded me that I donât need to chase, fix, or force anything. The freedom that comes from just letting people beâwhile staying grounded in your own worthâis liberating.If youâre someone who tends to overthink, overgive, or get stuck trying to make everyone happy, this book is a must-read. Itâs gentle, wise, and empowering. Iâll be recommending Let Them Theory to everyone I know.
Out Of The Box Thinker –
What a great liberating book that comes at just the right time!
I love this book so much! This book focuses on what I call the new liberation model versus the old model that was conditioned and programed into us that we currently find ourselves currently mirrored in with components of power, control, stress, fear, elitist, immaturity, righteousness, polarization, tribalism, narcissism, stubborn, rigid and/or chaos, negativity bias, over-thinking, complaining, know-it-all, judgmental, critical/hyper-critical, egotistical (ego) selfish/group selfishness, contradictory, superiority, hypocritical, comparison, competitiveness, fighting & arguing, fragmented society, entitlement, perfectionism, identifying/over-identifying with your beliefs ideological, misery, victim mentality, we are right and your group is wrong/we are good and your group is bad, drama triangle & drama addiction, neuroticism, codependency, terrible at relationships (especially with people who think or believe differently than you and with people who can think outside of the current box/boxes), moral superiority, increased mental health issues, increased medical health issues, lots of news addiction, social media addiction, political addiction, political righteousness and political radicalness too.Thank you to those (like Mel Robbins) that are doing deeper mental health therapy work on themselves to be better human beings, transform themselves, and to be better version of themselves. Mel is a great example of a genuine, vulnerable, real, whole and authentic role model and a real leader in our society!Thank you to those humans, researchers and mental health/medical professionals/other professionals advocating for the newer integration model, newer liberation model, and self actualizing model Separation & polarization group models never work long term, are very immature and go against the laws of nature.The other books that are like this are: “Liberated Love”, “Unhealthy Helping”, “Beyond Anxiety” and “Dissolving the Ego”, “The Way of Integrity”, “On Fear”, “Living Untethered”, “No Bad Parts” and “The Book of Awakening” or “The Little Book of Awakening”.Remember, the younger generation is watching and witnessing all of this toxic & dysfunctional mess. Hopefully, the younger generation will learn from this and not be anything like the older generations.Please do us all a big favor and go work on yourselves with mental health therapy work. Working on yourself is the only true, real, authentic way to transform a society. Anything less, is just superficial, shallow, and surface level change. Pease look at my first paragraph and I think most humans will see many items in that first paragraph to work on in therapy.Most of the human traits in my first paragraph are terrible for your relationships and connections in general.It is interesting that the USA Western culture teaches and trains people to be in your own ego and (the ego is the highest priority) The USA mantra is “Your own ego and what your ego or what the group ego wants is all that matters” and “I have all the answers”(ego) where the Eastern culture has their highest attainment is enlightenment and self actualization and they teach their culture that: “We do not have all the answers” (humble). The Eastern mantra is “Drop your own ego, practice non attachment and work towards self actualization and enlightenment”. I wonder what culture is doing better right now?You could also try a meditation class or a yoga class (or do one on youtube) to see if you can calm down your brain, body, mind, and your ego! It might also improve your relationships if you are in a calmer, flexible and more loving state of mind. Plus, you might gain more creative, innovative, and ingenuity problem solving skills (which the USA culture really seems to have rarity of these skills nowadays).It is interesting that the USA has so much moral superiority, righteousness, egotistical and a know-it-all attitude considering we have the worst education data, longevity data, medical conditions data, mental health data, prescription drug data, human trafficking data, suicide rates data, murder rates data than most of the 1st world countries.”It Is No Measure of Health to Be Well Adjusted To a Profoundly Sick Society”-Jiddu Krishnamurti
Smallu71 –
pretty good
Nothing earth shattering here, but a good wake up call. Worth the read at minimum for the chapter on adult friendships. A lot of simple, easy to put into practice advice.
Karmen –
amazing book no complaints
This is probably one of the best books I have ever read. Everything is so relatable and she makes it so easy to visualize and make happen. I genuinely see so much difference in my outlook on life, especially right now where I am at. If you are thinking about getting it, DO IT. I promise you won’t regret it.
Amanda Fenech –
Life-Changing Perspective â A Must-Read!
The Let Them Theory is truly one of the best books Iâve ever read. Itâs incredibly eye-opening and gave me a whole new perspective on life, relationships, and personal growth. The concept of simply âletting themâ â whether thatâs people leaving, behaving a certain way, or making their own choices â is so freeing. It teaches you to let go of control, stop taking things personally, and focus on your own peace.This book helped me understand the power of acceptance and the beauty in letting go. Itâs written in such a relatable and gentle way, like a friend talking to you and guiding you toward emotional freedom. Every chapter felt like a breath of fresh air.If youâre struggling with anxiety, overthinking, or holding on too tightly to people or situations, this book is exactly what you need. Itâs the kind of book you want to highlight, reread, and share with everyone you know. Absolutely a 10/10!
Donna –
Such great practical advice with some nice examples to commit the practices to memory
Trixie –
Très bon livre.
Erin M. –
Love it
Mrs Michelle Werb –
Fantastic well written comprehensive book. Beautiful layout and so informative. Every women struggling with understanding the changes in their bodies should read this. Great read for the husbands too .. will really give them an insight ð
chinamaterial –
Está buenÃsimoâ¦en serio que práctico todo lo que Mel Robbins comparte. Muy coloquial!